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But when my ex-husband chose to marry me (knowing he was gay), he compounded that harm, spreading the trauma and devastation to two lives, rather than confining it to one. Many LGBT people may not want to acknowledge this, thinking it detracts from their very real suffering.I certainly understand that they may not want to share that particular medal in the Oppression Olympics.I am not invalidating the brutal homophobia that sent people like my ex-husband so deeply into his closet that he had to use me as its door. My justifiable anger should not be confused with homophobia. I have officiated at LGBT weddings, and count LGBT people among my closest colleagues and friends.I am saying that my life was ripped apart by that homophobia too. This shared trauma should make us allies against the injustice of homophobia and its consequences.During the time my husband and I have been dating and married, he has had some episodes where he has not been able to have an erection during intercourse.
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